Masturbation

Query: Masturbation... I have been masturbating from last many years i dont know how to control i am suffering from weakness my mind compleatly blocked.


Kaivalya Jnani:
It is inbuilt tendency of human beings to masturbate... be it a man or woman! The moment children reach the age of puberty... one develops a tendency to masturbate. As one steps into the domain of grownups... the sexual inclination takes root. Seeing the members of opposite sex one indulges in fantasies... which often results in one masturbating!

Masturbating... is not bad after all! Why? It was built by God Almighty as a release valve... so that the excess sexual energy could be dissipated without causing much harm to the individual concerned! However... excess masturbation leads to excessive dissipation of cosmic energy present within every human being.


This leads to feeling of weakness and sometimes disorientation! Excessive indulgence in masturbation is totally prohibited on the spiritual scale. Why? It is for the simple reason that our soul atman has manifested the human body to work out its karma... remove the dross impurities within and not vice versa. Our soul atman is the absolute master and controller of the body.

If the human beings drain out excessive cosmic energy from the body... the goal of the soul atman within gets defeated. Masturbating once a week is normal. Anything above would be considered abnormal. Masturbation is not an accepted practice even though most human beings practice it day and night.

The famous psychologist Bertrand Russell famously acknowledged that he was the best masturbator of all times. He never hesitated in expressing whatever he felt was good for him. He openly wrote about his experiences of masturbation in his books. Openly excepting masturbation as a means to satisfy the inner urges require guts which Bertrand Russell exhibited in plenty.


Why does one really masturbate? The inner urge of indulgence in sex makes one masturbate. Seeing members of the opposite sex... one dreams about lot of fantasies which never get fulfilled. The result... one indulgences in masturbation day and night. It is this excessive masturbation that leads to feeling weak at times.

Highly successful people... famous entrepreneurs... those with an enterprising spirit always channelise their inner urges to more creative channels. By preserving the quota of energy provided to every human being month after month... these famed architects of mankind transmuted rather directed their total energies behind the goal of life.

The moment human beings start practicing celibacy in right earnestness... the act of masturbation becomes a thing of the past. Practicing celibacy (termed Brahmacharya Vrata in Hinduism)... most human beings scale unprecedented heights... something not possible while practicing masturbation!


Behind every success lay the seeds of Channelising sexual energy to more creative uses... the one exhibited by Bill Gates, Winston Churchill, Margaret Thatcher and the likes. If we desire breaking the habit of masturbation... we need to practice the mantra for celibacy! Reading articles on celibacy on my various web sites... one shall realize the truth!

The mantra for celibacy mandates every relationship with the opposite sex limits to... the relationship of a mother, sister or daughter! Apart from these three relationships... none other relationship truly exists! The moment we reach this stage... all fantasies... all kinds of sensual indulgences come to a naught!

It is by overcoming the sensual desires at its roots... I finally ascended the throne of spirituality... the stage of self realization! For overcoming every indulgence of masturbation... we need to practice the mantra for celibacy in absolute truthfulness. In absence of the same... nothing much can be achieved on the altar of life.


We may or may not desire traveling the spiritual path... we may or may not be enterprising... we may or may not have a goal of life... still, getting out of the clutches of masturbation is one of the most pleasant experiences a man or woman experiences in life. The effects of channelising energy through more creative channels are not felt immediately but after few months! Why not wait and observe for self!



Essay by: Kaivalya Jnani ... One who realized self in his life time! Send your query!

A to Z of Masturbation explained in words everyone can easily understand and fathom. More on masturbating can be found at : How to Stop Masturbating  ... Neeru J. - 5th June 2010.

Full text of query: I have been masturbating from last many years i dont know how to control i am suffering from weakness my mind compleatly blocked i hope u solve my problem.

 
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